Living A Wholly Life

Friday, December 31, 2021

Day 365 of 2021- New Years Eve!

 Well, we made it to the last day to 2021. Here we are enjoying the last few hours before we ring in 2022. One thing for sure is that I am really proud of writing for the last 365 days! I made a promise at the start of the year to write every single day and I kept it. 

There were so many days where I struggled to write but when I got in front to my page, I just wrote whatever came to my mind. The length never mattered to me and for me even if it was just one sentence, that was enough.

I am really proud of myself that I did it. The first step is always the hardest but you just have to take the first step. 

Reflect on all you accomplish this year and be proud of yourself. Today is not the day to be hard on yourself but to just give yourself a hug, a pat on the back, a high five and say "I did it", because you did. 

The year has not been easy on us but now we can take the memories, lessons learned and all the accomplishments and move forward to ring in the new year. 

Here are some quotes I love to reflect on for today:

"Last year's words belong to last year's language. And next year's words await another voice."- T.S Eliot

"Year's end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us."- Hal Borland

“As the year comes to a close, it is a time for reflection – a time to release old thoughts and beliefs and forgive old hurts. Whatever has happened in the past year, the New Year brings fresh beginnings. Exciting new experiences and relationships await. Let us be thankful for the blessings of the past and the promise of the future.”-Peggy Toney Horton

“Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365-page book. Write a good one.”-Brad Paisley

Wishing you all a great New Years Eve!! Enjoy, party, relax, reflect and take deep breathes!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Day 364 of 2021- Pre New Year's Eve

 So tomorrow is New Years Eve and yes another year will be over soon. What a year its been. There have been ups and down and boy has it truly been a roller coaster with all kinds of spins and twists. 

Now we have 2022 to look forward to. I came across this quote today:

"Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final"-Rainer Maria Rilke

So no matter what comes or what has happened this year, keep living fully. 

Keep that in mind as you reflect on 2021. List everything that you are grateful for. 

Enjoy the rest of the day!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Day 363 of 2021- 2 more days left for 2021

 Hope you all are enjoying the holidays. There are just 2 days left to the year. What is something special that you can do or start if you haven't already?

Starting the habit now will give you a head start to 2022 and remember its never too late. Also don't forget to reflect on the year and set some goals. Think about what worked and what has not. Journal some of your memories and experiences this year. Really use these last 2 days to reflect and remember before you start 2022.

Enjoy the last couple of days!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Tuesday, December 28, 2021

Day 362 of 2021- 3 more days

 Good Morning or afternoon/evening depending on where you are. Final 3 days of 2021 friends. Make the most of it. It is time to reflect on the year and really think about all the wonderful memories. Spend sometime to think about the not so great experiences and all the things that you have learned or are still learning. 

Life is a journey and it reminds me of this quote from Alfred Adler:

"The chief danger in life is that you may take too many precautions".

As you think about the year end and ahead, think about the quote above.

Have a wonderful day. Enjoy the last few days of vacation, make most of it and be fully present. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Monday, December 27, 2021

Day 361 of 2021- Final 4 days of 2021

 Happy Monday! There are only more days to 2021. Time has gone by so fast friends. Use these last few days to reflect on the year. Here are some questions to think about:

What are some lessons learned?

Things that you are grateful for?

What did you accomplish this year? What was success for you?

The goal is not to be hard on yourself but to remember to be gentle. Spend these last few days remembering and reflecting. It has been a hard year for sure with lots of struggles but we can do hard things one step at a time, one breathe at a time. 

Maximize the last few days on your self care and being fully present with loved ones. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Sunday, December 26, 2021

Day 360 of 2021-Sleep in

 Happy day after Christmas. Hope everyone had a great Christmas and received all the great gifts that you are looking for.

Get some rest today and sleep in. Don't forget to get some self care in. Enjoy and be fully present with your loved ones. That is the greatest gift. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Saturday, December 25, 2021

Day 359 of 2021- Merry Christmas

 Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas!! May all your hopes and dreams come true. May there be peace, good health, love, compassion,  and gratitude always.

Enjoy the day with loved ones and just be present and take it all in. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Friday, December 24, 2021

Day 358 of 2021- Christmas Eve

 Happy Christmas Eve you all! Hopefully all the shopping is now done and you can take a deep breathe. Of course there is still lots to do like preparing, wrapping, baking and cooking amongst other things. 

You will get through this and most importantly don't forget to have fun and enjoy the time. 

So what is your wish for yourself on this Christmas eve? Mine is to always remember gratitude, forgiveness and everything that I learned this year. Its to remind myself of the courage, strength and perseverance for getting through this year. 

It has been tough but I know that I can. We all can since we have done it and will continue to do it and move on step forward at a time. 

So Happy Christmas Eve and may all your dreams come true. Remember you are loved and worth it and enough.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita 

Thursday, December 23, 2021

Day 357 of 2021- 2nd day wish

 Hope you all are enjoying the holidays! Its truly for me, the most wonderful time of the year. My 2nd wish is to always remember love, joy, peace and happiness. Its to surround myself with people who will always encourage me to grow and be there for me. 

What's your wish?

Enjoy and be present my friends! 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Wednesday, December 22, 2021

Day 356 of 2021- 3rd wish day

 With just 3 more days to Christmas, what is your 3rd wish for yourself? Mine is to always remember love, self worth and to know that I am enough.

A lot of times I know that I tend to want to follow others or culture and that takes me out of my integrity. To know that I am alone perfect and enough just the way that I am is always a great mantra. It is also a great one to remind your kids of that. Just be you in all your lovely awesomeness!!

Enjoy the holidays my friends!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Tuesday, December 21, 2021

Day 355 of 2021-4 more days to Christmas

 Wow its almost here. I don't know about you but my kids and I are so excited. I have been thinking about my 4th wish. I hope to develop more of the skills that I need to be the best mom for my kids. 

As kids grow up I find that my focus on them changes depending on what they are going through. One of the skills would be to be more present with them and to have more one on one with them. As a mom, I obviously want the very best of everything for them and that also means letting them find their way while I am there hand in hand supporting them through their lives. It also means stepping back when I need to. 

Its so hard but I have to remember that I need to prepare them for life's ups and downs. 

What is your 4th wish? What do you wish for deep down? 

Friends, use this time to really enjoy the holidays. Be present with loves ones and just chill. 

Have a wonderful Holiday!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Monday, December 20, 2021

Day 354 of 2021- 5 more days

Happy Monday and hopefully a lot of you are off this week and next. If you are working, I am sure it will quiet. 

So 5 more days to Christmas and what is your 5th wish list for yourself. Mine is to connect more with my kids and others. It's to be always remember that everyone has struggles and how I show up everyday for the people in my like makes a huge impact. 

I know that when I stay in integrity I am able to connect more deeply. Connection is so key and its starts with self. 

Think about what's important for you. 

Have a wonderful Monday! 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Sunday, December 19, 2021

Day 353 of 2021-6th day wish

 Happy Sunday! What is your 6th wish? Mine is to keep letting go. Think about what wish you can make for yourself. 

Remember its time to relax, reset and enjoy the days. Christmas will be over soon so make the most of this joyous season.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours.

Peace

Monita

Saturday, December 18, 2021

Day 352 of 2021- 7th day wish

 Happy Saturday! 7 more days to Christmas. What is your 7th day wish for yourself? Mine is to be able to slow down. 

Things have been so busy and hectic for a lot of us and so my wish is that for the remainder of this year and next I am able to slow down. 

Have a great evening!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Friday, December 17, 2021

Day 351 of 2021- Happy Friday and your 8th wish

 Happy Friday! We made it through the week. For those of you that are off, wishing you all Happy holidays.

So what is your self wish for the 8th more days to Christmas? Mine is that each and everyone of you have a great holiday. 

I hope for peace, good health and joy to everyone. Keep safe and strong. Enjoy this moment.

Have a great weekend.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Thursday, December 16, 2021

Day 350- 9th Wish

 Hello Friends! Its almost time for a lot of you to take sometime off.  What is your 9 days to Christmas wish list? 

Mine is to not forgot what has happened in the past (especially in the last 2 years) to help me chart the course ahead. 

I don't believe in staying in the past but to reflect and always remember the lessons learned and to use my memory to help me for the future. 

Think about a wish for yourself. What would that be.

Hope you all are having a great day!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita


Wednesday, December 15, 2021

Day 349 of 2021- Hump Day-10th wish

 Happy Wednesday! What is your 10th wish for yourself? Mine is to find fulfillment. I am at a job where it has been so draining and stressful and I feel like I can't do it anymore. 

Think about your wish for yourself. We only have 10 days till Christmas. Hope that you are also finding time to enjoy and relax during this busy shopping season. 

Almost to the end of the week friends and I know so many of you will be taking off the next few weeks. Hang in there. Sending love and best wishes.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita 

Tuesday, December 14, 2021

Day 348 of 2021- Its Tuesday-11th day of wish

 So hope you all are having a good Tuesday so far. What is your 11th day wish for yourself this year and next. Mine is to keep reminding myself that I can and will. 

Write or think about what self gift you can give yourself.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Monday, December 13, 2021

Day 347 of 2021-Happy Monday

 Good Monday! This is the last week of school for winter break for most kids. They are so excited and I am so excited to.

Its 12 days to Christmas. The countdown starts. So what's your 12th day of holiday wish? Mine is to always remember that no matter what this too shall pass. 

For the next 12 days list something that you wish for yourself . And since this is Monday, here are some strength words to help you.

  • I am grateful
  • I am strong
  • I know that I will
  • I believe
  • I am beautiful
Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace
Monita

Sunday, December 12, 2021

Day 346 of 2021- Sunday

 Good Evening! Hope you all had a great weekend. Things have been so crazy busy right. Now that the holidays are almost here everyone is out and about trying to get their shopping list checked off. 

What's on your self list friends? Here is a great quote from Abraham Maslow:

"In any moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or step back into safety."

As you think about this year end and next year, remember what you are stepping into. It won't be easy but think about the alternative. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Saturday, December 11, 2021

Day 345 of 2021- Saturday motivation

 Hope you all are having a good start to the weekend. From here on out, I will share a quote that would help keep you motivated or at least give you something to think about. 

Steve Jobs has many great quotes but here's one of them:

"Stay hungry, stay foolish."

It certainly would help to stay foolish since the best ideas may be born from there. Never give up.

Have a wonderful weekend.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours.

Peace

Monita

Friday, December 10, 2021

Day 344 of 2021- Happy Friday!

 Yay! We made it through the week. Hope you have a great weekend. Know that you matter and you are enough. 

Give yourself credit for the willpower and caffeine to get you through the week, a huge hug and a pat on the back and why not add in a high five!

Keep being strong for you. Use the weekend to relax and chill. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Thursday, December 9, 2021

Day 343 of 2021- Happy Thursday

 Hello! Happy Pre Friday! You are almost to the end of the week. Here is a great quote that I read today:

"Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life"-Will Durant

Draw wisdom from your life experiences this year and the past and as much as you have learned. Its a great way to reflect and decide where you want to go. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Wednesday, December 8, 2021

Day 342 of 2021-Hump day

Happy Wednesday!  Its half way through the week and almost Friday.

The week and month is going by so fast and before you know it school will be out for the Holiday break and it will be Christmas and the New year will be upon us. 

Time is just going by. There is still about 3 weeks left so don't forget to build in time for self care and reflection. Start to write things down as you think back about the year and also use the time to write how you can make self care a priority. 

Whenever its hump day, I tend to motivate myself a little more since Friday is almost here. Its a good day to start to reflect if you haven't already. 

Use this time friends.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Tuesday, December 7, 2021

Day 341 of 2021- A reminder

 Good Tuesday! As you reflect and think about the last few days here is a reminder:

"I change myself, I change the world"-Gloria Anzaldua

Think about what needs to breakdown or change in order for you to be an effective vessel for change. Do this for you first and your surroundings will change.

Start wherever you are!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Monday, December 6, 2021

Day 340 of 2021-Strength words

 Happy Monday! Here are your strength words for the week:

  • I will always live in gratitude
  • Nothing can knock me down
  • I will
  • This too shall pass
  • Tomorrow is another day
  • I am going to smile at myself

Write a few down of your own and keep reminding yourself every morning. 

Always remember that you are worth it and enough.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Sunday, December 5, 2021

Day 339 of 2021- As you are out and about

 Happy Sunday! 20 more days to Christmas! Its so exciting. I feel like a young kid and just love the holidays. 

So as you are out and about finishing your shopping or starting it, remember to find time to get something for yourself, as well as, time to relax and reflect.

We are get so busy running around buying gifts for everyone and just having so much to do. If you see anything that you want, get it. There are a lot of sales so get a gift for yourself to. I know you are probably waiting for someone to give it to you and that will happen but sometimes we see something nice so instead of saying no, get it for yourself. Anything you get for the holidays is additional and great. 

Remember Sunday is also the time to chill so take time to relax and reflect. Keep remembering to reflect and take inventory of how things went this year and the goals and plans you would like to set for next year. 

For now, enjoy the day. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Saturday, December 4, 2021

Day 338 of 2021- Inventory

 Hope you all are enjoying the weekend so far. As you think about the last 3 weeks of December, take an inventory of all the things that you can have wanted to start and put a plan in place. The time to start is now. 

Spend some time reflecting on how the year went for you and note of the things that you may not have started on. Remember this exercise is for you to be gentle on yourself. Don't be hard and always be kind to you. 

Make a note of all the things that you would like to do. See if you can started on just that one small step. You need not try to start on it all at once but take the time to start on the one thing that is a high priority if you can. 

Have a great weekend!

Wising you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Friday, December 3, 2021

Day 337 of 2021-Friday's quote

 Happy Friday! Here is your quote for the day:

"The difference between misery and happiness depends on what we do with our attention"- Sharon Salzberg

Notice to what you are paying attention to today. It will definitely shift your mood. 

Hope you are able to get of early and enjoy the day and weekend.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Thursday, December 2, 2021

Day 336 of 2021- You never know

 So I wake up this morning and am unable to walk due to my back. I felt the pull last night and this morning it was really bad.

You never know friends what will happen when. Take it easy and don't overexert yourself. I hope you all have a great relaxing evening while I ice my back.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Wednesday, December 1, 2021

Day 335 of 2021- Good Evening

 Have a great night. Remember that you are enough, worthy and loved more than you realize. Never forget that deep down.

No one can take your wind away from you. 

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita