Hi Friends,
I remembered an important lesson today, and I think it traces back to Maya Angelou, who once said that when someone shows you who they are, you should believe them the first time. It is such a simple statement, yet it carries a weight that most of us only come to appreciate after we have ignored it more times than we would like to admit.
We tend to make excuses for people, to convince ourselves that a bad moment was simply an aberration rather than a genuine reflection of character, and in doing so we often set ourselves up for disappointment that could have been avoided entirely.
Angelou's words are a reminder that people's actions, especially the ones that surprise or unsettle us, are rarely accidents, and that our first instinct to notice them is usually the correct one.
Friends, never forget this, because the moment someone reveals their true self is the moment you should be paying the closest attention.
Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!
Peace
Monita