Living A Wholly Life

Saturday, November 30, 2024

Day 335 of 2024- Last Day of November

 Hi Friends,

Happy last day of November! It's hard to believe we're already here, isn't it? Take some time today to reflect on the month as it comes to a close.

Here are a few questions to guide your reflection:

  • What went well for you this month?
  • What lessons did you learn?
  • What brought you joy or made you feel good?
  • What successes, big or small, did you celebrate?
  • If you could do anything differently, what would it be?
  • What are you looking forward to in December and as the year ends?
  • What are your plans for the holidays?
  • How can you prioritize self-care in the weeks ahead?

Embrace this final day of November 2024, and let it inspire peace and gratitude as you step into the season ahead.

Wishing you warmth, joy, and happiness—from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Friday, November 29, 2024

Day 334 of 2024-More on Gratitude

Hi Friends,

Today, I want to take a moment to talk about the powerful practice of gratitude. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy to overlook the small moments of joy and the everyday blessings that surround us. Yet, when we pause to acknowledge these gifts, we cultivate a sense of abundance and contentment that can transform our perspective on life.

Gratitude doesn't require grand gestures or significant events. It can be as simple as savoring your morning coffee, appreciating the warm smile of a friend, or feeling thankful for the comfort of your home. Each act of recognition fuels another, building a habit that can uplift and inspire.

Let's challenge ourselves to recognize and appreciate these moments not just occasionally, but consistently. By weaving gratitude into the fabric of our daily lives, we set the stage for a richer, more fulfilling experience.

Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. Your presence is a constant reminder of the incredible power of community and connection.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Thursday, November 28, 2024

Day 333 of 2024- Thanksgiving

 Hi Friends,

For many of us, today is Thanksgiving—a day when we gather with family and friends to share a meal and give thanks.

As I reflect on doing things differently, I'm reminded of the importance of daily gratitude. Taking a moment during the day, or at its end, to appreciate the positive events can profoundly shift your mindset. To make a real change, practicing gratitude every day is essential.

Have a wonderful holiday with your loved ones. I am incredibly grateful for each and every one of you!

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Day 332 of 2024- Simplicity

 Hi Friends,

Leonardo da Vinci once said, “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”

This timeless wisdom reminds us that doing things differently doesn’t have to be overwhelming or complex. Often, the most impactful changes come from embracing simplicity—not as a limitation, but as a source of clarity and creativity. When we step away from overcomplication, we open the door to new perspectives and innovative solutions.

Simplicity invites us to focus on what truly matters, empowering us to make intentional choices that challenge the status quo. By rethinking old habits and embracing simplicity with courage, we can discover that doing things differently isn’t something to fear—it’s an opportunity for growth, transformation, and lasting impact.

How can you add more simplicity to your daily life during this 30-day challenge?

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Day 331 of 2024- A Quote For Doing Things Differently

Hi Friends,

Here’s a powerful quote from Maya Angelou that aligns beautifully with the theme of doing things differently:

“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.”
— Maya Angelou

This quote is a reminder that even when circumstances feel beyond our control, we always have the power to approach things differently. Whether it’s shifting our actions, our mindset, or our perspective, small changes can lead to profound transformation.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Monday, November 25, 2024

Day 330 of 2024-Ending the Year Differently: A 30-Day Challenge

Hi Friends.

It’s hard to believe we’re in the final stretch of the year. With just a little over 30 days left, I’ve been reflecting on how to make these remaining moments truly count. In my recent posts, I shared the power of choosing one thing to do differently each day—whether it’s staying calm during chaos or practicing deep, intentional listening. Those small shifts reminded me that big transformations often begin with simple, intentional actions.

As we approach the year’s end, I’m sticking with this theme: doing one thing differently—every single day. It’s not about overhauling my life or adding more to an already full plate. Instead, it’s about embracing small, meaningful changes that help me stay present and finish the year with purpose.

For example, on hectic days, I plan to focus on calm, as I mentioned before. Taking a few deep breaths, savoring a warm cup of tea, or even stepping away for a moment can make a world of difference. On other days, I’ll lean into being fully present with those around me—listening deeply, without distraction. Each small choice is a step toward ending the year with intention.

The beauty of this approach is its simplicity. Each day, I can ask myself: What’s the one thing I’ll do differently today? It could be starting a new morning ritual, reconnecting with someone I’ve lost touch with, or choosing gratitude over frustration. These moments of intentionality are what make the end of the year feel special—not the rush to accomplish everything on a checklist.

So here’s my challenge to you: Let’s use these final 30 plus days to embrace the power of small changes. Let’s stay curious about what a simple shift can spark, and let’s finish the year feeling connected—to ourselves, to others, and to what truly matters.

What’s one thing you’ll do differently today? Let’s take this journey together, one day at a time.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita


Sunday, November 24, 2024

Day 329 of 2024-The Power Of Doing One Thing Differently

 Hi Friends,

Sometimes, it’s easy to overlook how small changes can make a big difference. After reflecting yesterday on staying calm, I realized how powerful it is to intentionally shift just one part of my day. It’s not about overhauling everything; it’s about choosing one thing that could ripple outward and transform how I feel.

Today, my focus is on listening—really listening. Whether it’s a conversation with a friend, a colleague, or even myself, I want to be fully present. No interruptions, no multitasking. I’ve noticed how much deeper connections feel when I genuinely hear someone, instead of just waiting to respond. It’s amazing how often we underestimate the impact of truly being present.

So here’s my challenge to you: What’s the one thing you’ll do differently today? It doesn’t have to be monumental—small changes often lead to the greatest growth.

Start with one step, and watch where it leads.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Saturday, November 23, 2024

Day 328 of 2024- Do Differently

 Hi Friends,

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how our routines often follow the same patterns day after day. It got me thinking: What’s one thing I can do differently today? If I were to break the mold, even slightly, what would that look like?

A lot of ideas came to mind, but for today, my focus is on staying calm. It’s going to be a hectic weekend, and I know that staying calm is the key to navigating it all. For me, that means accepting that I might stay up later than usual, get less sleep, and still remain steady. A calming ritual—like savoring a warm cup of tea—can make all the difference, helping me move through the chaos with ease.

So, friends, I pose the same question to you: What’s the one thing you’ll do differently today? Whatever it is, make it intentional and meaningful.

Let’s start small and see where it takes us.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Friday, November 22, 2024

Day 327 of 2024- Great Friday Quote

 Hi Friends,

Judy Garland once said:

"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of someone else."

This powerful reminder emphasizes the importance of staying true to who you are. Embrace your unique qualities and authenticity—it’s what makes you truly exceptional. Trying to imitate others only dims your light, while being your genuine self allows you to shine in ways no one else can. Always remember, your individuality is your greatest strength.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Thursday, November 21, 2024

Day 326 of 2024- Take Care

 Hi Friends,

We’re getting close to the weekend, and for many of us, there’s a holiday coming up next week. As you think about the weekend and the upcoming holidays, I want to remind you to keep taking care of yourself.

Take some time to relax, recharge, and do the things that make you happy. This is certainly a busy time of year, but taking care of yourself should always be a priority. Never forget that.

Remember, when you take care of yourself, you’re better able to show up for others and truly enjoy the season. So, give yourself permission to rest and recharge—you’ve earned it.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita 

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Day 325 of 2024- Its A Good Day

 Hi Friends,

If you're having a good day so far, take a moment to appreciate it. Weekdays are often packed with work stress, taking care of kids, running errands, and countless other responsibilities. But when you find yourself enjoying a calm, easy day, be grateful and savor the moment—it can quickly shift from peaceful to hectic in an instant.

As for me, I’m having a good day so far, and I plan to fully enjoy this moment while it lasts.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours.

Peace

Monita

Tuesday, November 19, 2024

Day 324 of 2024- Tuesday's Quote

Hi Friends,

I came across this quote today:

"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change." — Carl Rogers

This resonates deeply because, so often, we believe we need to change first in order to deserve our own acceptance. We set conditions for self-worth, thinking, “I’ll accept myself once I lose the weight, get the promotion, or fix what’s wrong with me.” But the truth is, lasting change only begins with acceptance.

Acceptance isn’t about giving up or settling; it’s about acknowledging and embracing ourselves as we are in this moment—flaws, strengths, and everything in between. It’s the foundation of growth. Without it, change becomes a struggle rooted in rejection and self-criticism, which only makes transformation harder to sustain.

Paradoxically, when we stop resisting who we are and choose to embrace our imperfections, we create the space for true, meaningful change to happen. Acceptance is the first step, not the last, and it opens the door to becoming the best version of ourselves.

Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

Peace

Monita

Monday, November 18, 2024

Day 323 of 2024-Monday's Wish

 Hi Friends,

I hope you have an awesome week:

  • Enjoy your morning coffee or tea slowly.
  • Receive a smile and a kind inquiry about your day.
  • Complete all your tasks on time.
  • Experience less stress.
  • Take deep breaths regularly.
  • Remember to be thankful
  • Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Sunday, November 17, 2024

    Day 322 of 2024- Allies and Adversaries

     Hi Friends,

    This morning, while listening to the news, I heard the words "adversary" and "ally." These terms made me pause and reflect on the roles people play in our lives. An adversary, often seen in a negative light, is someone who opposes us, creating challenges or conflicts that can either hinder or, surprisingly, help us grow. On the other hand, an ally is a supporter, someone who aids us, stands by our side, and promotes our well-being.

    As we progress through November and December to close out the year, I strongly encourage you to review your friendships and other relationships to determine who truly stands as an adversary or an ally. This introspection is vital as it helps us understand who we should draw closer and who we might need to keep at a distance.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Saturday, November 16, 2024

    Day 321 of 2024- Weekend Ritual

     Hi Friends,

    Hope you’re all enjoying your weekend! Do you have a weekend ritual? For me, it’s savoring my coffee slowly, taking in each sip. There’s something special about enjoying my morning coffee without the usual rush — it’s a moment of calm that sets a positive tone for the rest of the day.

    If you don’t have a ritual yet, I highly recommend starting one. It could be a simple activity, like a walk in nature or listening to your favorite music. Creating these small pockets of joy can make the weekend feel more intentional and help you recharge for the week ahead.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Friday, November 15, 2024

    Day 320 of 2024- End Your Friday

     Hi Friends,

    Happy Friday! As the week comes to a close, take a moment to tie up any loose ends and wrap up unfinished tasks. This way, you can head into the weekend with a clear mind, free from lingering worries. When you log off today, make it a point to disconnect and truly step away from work—your time to rest and recharge is just as important as the work itself.

    Remember, the tasks will still be there on Monday, but this weekend is a one-time offer. So, enjoy it fully.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Thursday, November 14, 2024

    Day 319 of 2024- Continuation on Working Together

     Hi Friends,

    Reflecting on the importance of setting aside differences and effective communication from my post yesterday, I felt compelled to share more about why these two aspects are critical for collaboration.

    Setting aside differences isn’t easy—it requires patience and a willingness to look beyond our personal perspectives. However, when there’s a shared goal, it provides a common anchor. Focusing on this goal helps to redirect our energy toward what’s truly important, allowing us to work together productively despite differing opinions or approaches.

    When it comes to communication, I’ve found that the key is understanding each other’s expectations and consistently bringing the conversation back to the shared objective. It’s not always about agreeing with one another, but about creating clarity and alignment. In my experience, what matters most is being able to set aside emotional responses in the moment and stay focused on the desired outcome. This doesn’t mean ignoring your feelings, but rather recognizing them and prioritizing the path forward.

    I hope these insights resonate and serve as a reminder that even in challenging moments, a shared vision and clear communication can make all the difference.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Wednesday, November 13, 2024

    Day 318 of 2024- Working Together

    Hi Friends,

    Happy Hump Day! Hope your week is going well. I’ve been thinking about teamwork lately. In my experience, I've often worked independently, but I know that's not the case for everyone. Some teams really need to collaborate, and that can be challenging at times.

    Today, I just want to remind you: effective teamwork means setting aside differences and focusing on communication. It’s the key to true success when working with others. Keep that in mind as you collaborate with your teammates.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Tuesday, November 12, 2024

    Day 317 of 2024- A Little Lightness

     Hi Friends,

    I hope you’re all having a fantastic day so far! Here’s a quick little joke to add some lightness to your afternoon:

    Reminder: Don’t leave any food around your computer...

    It takes a lot of bytes! 🍎💻

    And if your computer starts snacking, just make sure it doesn’t get a megabyte... or it might crash! 😅

    Wishing you a smile and a moment of laughter. Remember, taking a break to laugh is a great way to reboot your mind. Have a wonderful day, and don’t forget to back up your happiness files today!

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita


    Monday, November 11, 2024

    Day 316 of 2024-Another Week

     Hi Friends,

    Happy Monday!

    "Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live." — Dorothy Thompson

    I came across this quote this morning, and it reminded me of the incredible transformations that can happen when we let go of our fears. Imagine how much our lives could change and expand if we embrace courage and step forward. Are you ready to take that step?

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Sunday, November 10, 2024

    Day 315 of 2024- A little Motivation

     Hi Friends,

    As you take time to rest and recharge for the upcoming week, remember to stay strong. We all have a lot going on, and there are days when it’s hard to even get out of bed and tackle the tasks on our list. But true strength is about showing up and taking action, even when you don’t feel like it. Every small step forward counts, and your perseverance will lead you closer to your goals. Keep going—you’ve got this!

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Saturday, November 9, 2024

    Day 314 of 2024-Weekend Schedule

    Hi Friends,

    I love weekends when I can stick to my regular sleep schedule. It’s not always easy, but I find that keeping a consistent routine helps me feel more refreshed and ready to enjoy the days ahead.

    This weekend, I’m happy to say I’m getting my usual rest, and it feels amazing! It’s a small act of self-care, but it makes a big difference. If you can, try to keep your sleep schedule on track during the weekends too — your body and mind will thank you for it.

    Take a moment to slow down, recharge, and savor the simple joys. 

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Friday, November 8, 2024

    Day 313 of 2024- I Love This Time Of The Year

     Hi Friends,

    Happy Friday! You made it through the week — well done.

    I truly love this time of year. The cool mornings and pleasant afternoons make it perfect for enjoying the weather. I also love seeing all the holiday preparations and decorations; it just makes me smile and brings joy to my heart.

    It’s a great reminder that in a few weeks, we’ll have the chance to slow down, savor life, and spend time with loved ones and friends. It’s a good reminder to build in those slow, reflective moments not just during the holiday season, but throughout the entire year.

    I also love that my kids get to slow down, and we all get to enjoy the moments together. It’s never too early to cheer yourself up and feel the joy of the upcoming holidays.

    Wishing you peace and happiness, from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Thursday, November 7, 2024

    Day 312 of 2024- Question Of The Day

     Hi Friends,

    Are you sticking to what you said you would do?

    In the rush of our daily lives, it’s easy to let our goals slip through the cracks. We make commitments to ourselves, big and small—whether it’s a work project, a personal goal, or even just a promise to take time for self-care. But sticking to these promises is what really drives growth and success.

    How often do we find ourselves saying, “I’ll get to it tomorrow,” or “I’ll start next week”? Let’s take a moment to check in with ourselves: Are we following through on what we set out to do?

    Sometimes, all it takes is a small shift in our habits or mindset to get back on track. Let’s start today by honoring those commitments we made to ourselves.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Wednesday, November 6, 2024

    Day 311 of 2024- What Will You Rediscover

     Hi Friends,

    Today, I challenge you to do something you haven’t done in a long time. Maybe it’s practicing gratitude, going to the gym, picking up a book, trying a new dish, or reaching out to a family member or friend.

    For me, the one thing I haven’t done in ages but want to tackle is learning a new language. I started learning Mandarin at the beginning of the year, but after a week, I couldn’t keep up. Now, I’m ready to give it another try.

    What will you do that you haven’t done in a while?

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Tuesday, November 5, 2024

    Day 310 of 2024- Setting Aside Time

     Hi Friends,

    Setting aside time to tackle your most important tasks not only ensures they get done but also frees up space for new ideas to emerge.

    This morning, I committed to completing my top priorities and started right on schedule. After finishing, I felt a deep sense of pride for persevering through the challenges and seeing them through to the end.

    So, I encourage you to designate a specific time for your tasks and stick with it. You'll be amazed at what you can accomplish!

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Monday, November 4, 2024

    Day 309 of 2024- Monday's Quote

     Hi Friends,

    Charles Darwin once said, "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent. It is the one most adaptable to change."

    You are on a journey, and the single most essential trait for both survival and success is adaptability. Intelligence alone won't get you far—without adaptability, you'll remain stagnant.

    Focus on being adaptable, and you'll find yourself moving forward with ease.

    Have a wonderful week!

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Sunday, November 3, 2024

    Day 308 of 2024- Something For You To Consider

    Hi Friends,

    There's an old adage that says, “Old ways won’t open new doors,” attributed to Sam Horn. As we move through the rest of this month and year, I invite you to consider what new possibilities await you. What new doors can you open by building fresh habits, adopting new perspectives, or finding innovative ways of doing things?

    Starting now, take a moment to envision the changes you want to make in your life—changes that bring you closer to your goals, dreams, and aspirations. Don’t wait; the best time to begin is today! Opening new doors may feel uncomfortable or even scary at times. But true growth and leadership come from embracing these feelings and stepping forward with courage. Remember, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Each small step leads to new opportunities.

    Becoming the leader of your life means accepting the discomfort that comes with change, knowing it’s a sign that you’re expanding and evolving. With awareness and intention, you can take the steps needed to create a future that truly resonates with who you are.

    Remember, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. 

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours! 

    Peace

    Monita

    Saturday, November 2, 2024

    Day 307 of 2024-Be More Silly

     Hi Friends,

    We've all had those wonderfully silly moments in life—they’re part of what makes us human and brings joy to our journey. As we move through this month and the holiday season draws near, let’s embrace the lighthearted side of life. Don’t be afraid to laugh a little louder, be a bit goofier, and savor the fun around you. I say, let’s have more smiles and laughter than seriousness!

    May you be filled with joy.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita

    Friday, November 1, 2024

    Day 306 of 2024- Happy November

    Hi Friends,

    Welcome, November! Just two months left in the year. Use the next 60 days to tackle your goals with clarity and purpose.

    Create two to-do lists: one for your personal goals and one for your career goals. Make each list clear, concise, and actionable. Set dates and outline specific steps. Remember, goals don’t have to be huge—small goals and habits build momentum!

    Make the most of these next 60 days to finish the month and year strong.

    Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!

    Peace

    Monita