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Sunday, January 3, 2021

Day 3 of 2021- Preparing for the first Monday

 What a lovely rainy Sunday it is. I love the rain and opened the door to take in some fresh deep breathes, taking in the smells of the wet day. It is so cold here about 39 degrees but I still love to just open the door for a few minutes. 

My daughter loves the rain too and in the summer she loved playing in the rain and getting all wet. Just seeing her jump on the rain puddles and smiling brought me such happiness. I did not go in the rain and join her in the fun, but definitely look forward to doing that this year when the weather is warmer.

Celebrated a good friend's birthday yesterday and going for another one today. We were all wearing masks and safely distanced. It is always nice to be part of the celebration and watch someone enjoy their day. I love to celebrate other birthdays and give them surprises. There's something about giving to others that brings such joy. 

So tomorrow is back to work and kids go back too after their winter break. Never fun to wake up early and start back the grind after such a lovely break. I am heading back to a very hectic couple of weeks of work so a big part of me is really dreading it as I am sure many of you are also feeling the same. 

One of the things that is heavily on my plate for work requires a lot of time and is very tedious. I honestly hate this time of the month but I know that it is only for a short time. So part of the game plan is to just stay focused on my tasks and get it done. I know that even though I don't enjoy it, if I just keep my concentration on the task at hand, then it will get done. 

So as most of us plan for tomorrow and getting back to work and school, what are some of the things we can do to lessen the dreaded day and week ahead? Maybe you are one of the lucky ones and looking forward to it in which case, good for you. But if any one out there dreading to face the day and week or month ahead, than welcome on my ship.

So for me, I know that as much as I am dreading it, one of the things I am focusing on is being grateful that I still have a job. I know so many people are suffering now due to the pandemic and may not have jobs to return to tomorrow. I have been fortunate to still have a job so I am so very thankful from the bottom of my heart. 

Along the same lane, I am also thankful that the kids get back to online school and are home staying safe and healthy. I am so grateful I get to be with them at home, cook for them and just be in their company. Such a blessing. 

So list all the things that you are grateful for and that does take away the dreaded feeling. Be as specific as you can and try not to repeat the same things. Try this every single day. 

Another thing I do is to remind myself that it could be a lot worse. There a many of your out there who have to go to work and there are no other options. I am glad that I get to be safely at home. 

Getting a good night's rest is always key. That helps to not be as tired and grumpy and to face the day with a clear head. 

Get all your prep done for next week, another words, grocery, laundry, meal preps etc. This way its one less thing as you head back tomorrow.

Know that you have been here before. Remember the years past and even though this year is different and difficult especially after the holidays, you will get through it. You will be okay.

And take care and be gentle with yourself as you head back. Don't be to hard and know that by next week this time, you will be back in the routine and in the swing of things. 

It will always be okay. You've got this!!

May you be at peace and happy from my heart to yours.


Peace,

Monita

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